The relationship between your buddy and her partner is trash, and she deserves more, haven’t you? Do you ever say “DTMFA” to someone in real life? What’s the best way to tell a friend to join DTFMA? As well as our years of a colder relationship following that overstep, I regret that I gleefully celebrated a friend’s split, only to have them get back together and then put me on the outs. Since when have you informed a friend’s relationship was trash? How do you know when to intervene and when to advise a buddy to “DTMFA?”.